The mothers shall suckle their offspring for two whole years, (that is) for
those (parents) who desire to complete the term of suckling, but the father of the
child shall bear the cost of the mother’s food and clothing on a reasonable basis.
No soul shall have a burden laid on it greater than it can bear. No mother shall be
treated unfairly on account of her child, or father on account of his child. And on
the (father’s) heir is incumbent the likes of that (which was incumbent on the father).
If they both decide on weaning, by mutual consent, and after due consultation, there
is no blame on them. And if you decide on a foster suckling-mother for your offspring
there is no blame on you, provided you pay (the mother) what you agreed (to give her)
on a reasonable basis. And fear ALLAH and know that ALLAH sees well what you do.
(Al-Baqarah: 233)
And We have enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents. His mother bore him in
weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years -
give thanks to ME and to your parents. Unto ME is your final destination. (Luqman: 14)
And we have enjoined on man to be dutiful and kind to his parents. His mother
bears him with hardship. And she brings him forth with hardship, and the bearing of
him, and the weaning of him is thirty months, ... (Al-Ahqaaf: 15)
In these ayat from the Quran, ALLAH, Subhanahu wa ta'ala, gives us a guideline about
suckling, indicating that two years is a normal term for breast-feeding a baby. Actually, the two year term is the
limit for developing family bonds that prohibit marriage. Of course, one is prohibited
from marrying his siblings and their offspring. The same applies to the siblings of
the foster mother that suckled the infant. If an infant is suckled by other than the
birth mother during the first two years after birth, the same marriage prohibitions must be observed
with the children of the foster mother. (There
are minimum suckling requirements for this to apply.) For example, if Abdullah is born
to Fatima. He is suckled by Meriam. All of Meriam’s daughters are Abdullah’s sisters
in suckling and they are prohibited to him in marriage. (There are others who become
prohibited in marriage as well, but we will not discuss this further since we are
concentrating on breast-feeding, not these relationships.)
Also evident from these ayat is that the minimum, normal pregnancy can be 6 months,
since the suckling period is two years and “the bearing and the weaning” period is
30 months.
(The reference to the cost of the mother’s expenses applies in the event of a divorce
during the suckling term or the pregnancy. In that case, the father must bear the
mother’s expenses during this period.)
The importance of breastfeeding is emphasized by the suggestion that a foster mother
can be used to suckle the infant.
While no health benefits have been detailed in the Quran, medical science has
documented numerous advantages for breast-feeding. Human milk contains the right
amount of fatty acids, lactose, water and amino acids for human digestion, brain
development and growth. Cow’s milk is well suited to calves, but has different
protein than human milk and is not as easy to digest.
The best nutrition for a baby is breast milk. Research over the past twenty years
indicates breast-fed babies have less medical problems, lower rates of hospital
admission, less ear infections, rashes, diarrhea and allergies than bottle fed babies.
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends not giving infants cow’s milk during
their first year. They should either be breast-fed or formula-fed. They also recommend
a minimum breast-feeding period of 6-12 months, with no maximum period. And no solid
food should be given during the first 4-6 months.
It should be noted that immediately after childbirth, the breasts do not yet contain milk.
Instead, they contain colostrum, a fluid that contains antibodies. It is very
important that the newborn receives this, so breast-feeding is recommended shortly after childbirth.
Some of the advantages of breast-feeding are:
- Cost - it is normally less expensive to breast-feed than it is to use formula or cow’s milk. It also requires less effort since there is no need to sterilize bottles or prepare formula. It is a balanced supply and demand situation. The more the infant feeds, the more milk is produced, so the supply keeps up with the demand.
- Hygiene - since the milk is direct from the breast, it is not contaminated by organisms in the bottles or the water used to wash the bottles. This reduces the risk of diarrhea. If breast milk is used with bottles, this benefit is not realized, but the other advantages still apply.
- Control - it gives the child more control over the flow of milk. Also, breast-feeding requires more effort to suck milk, so it helps jaw development.
- Immune system - breast milk contains a large number of cells that kill bacteria. This provides protection from illnesses such as pneumonia, bronchitis, staph infections, and influenza. Also, the mother’s antibodies are transferred to the child with the milk, so the baby is protected from diseases that his mother (and likely he) were exposed to.
- Pregnancy recovery - breast-feeding helps the mother recover from the pregnancy and delivery. It helps return the uterus to its original size and may help weight loss since it uses up extra calories.
- Healthier Mom - it should promote better health habits for the mother. She must eat a balanced diet, get plenty of rest, avoid foods that irritate the baby, etc. to maintain her strength. (It can lead to some discomfort, including engorged breasts, sore nipples, and sometimes, breast infections. Engorgement and sore nipples should ease once the mother gets used to breast-feeding. If infections develop, immediate medical attention should be obtained.)
- Cancer risk reduction - breast-feeding reduces the risk of breast cancer, both for the mother and the child. Studies have shown a 15-35% reduction in breast cancer among women who have lactated for 3-24 months. In addition, women who were breast-fed experienced a reduction in breast cancer of 24%. If one has done both, the benefits are greater, reducing the risk of breast cancer nearly 50%.
- Halal - it provides Halal food to the infant, with no certification required.
Finally, the father is also enriched by the experience. He takes great pleasure is
seeing the bond created between his dear wife and dear child as they share this very
personal experience. He can see the satisfaction in their eyes and the peace and
tranquility that surrounds them.
For more information on breast-feeding, visit
http://www.fda.gov/fdac/features/895_brstfeed.html and
http://www.aap.org/family/brstguid.htm.